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Anonymous asked: Hi. I just needed some advice and I dont really know who to ask. I have always identified as lesbian, and only been with women. But recently I have been questioning myself as I find some men to be attractive, and even have a slight crush on a guy I know. I dont understand it and it is making me really stressed. I already came out to my parents, and convinced my brother I cant just turn straight. I dont know what to do, or where to go from here. Should I just ignore this?

Okay SO I also just got a message from a girl saying she’s always identified as a lesbian but fell in love with a man at one point. And she’s wondering if she’s bisexual. So this response is for both of you guys. Listen up! Sexuality is fluid. Stop trying to define your sexuality and just be who you are. Like who you like. Love who you love. Everyone is different. Someone can be completely and utterly gay… and then happen to meet that one person who is of the opposite sex that they completely fall for. And vice versa with straight people. Try not to get hung up on the labels so much and/or just use an umbrella term such as “queer.” If YOU identify as a lesbian, and feel like you’re generally interested in women sexually and otherwise, then you are a lesbian. It doesn’t really matter if you’ve been with men or not.

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