and she even seemed interested. I even got her number. But the next day, I accidently sent a text to her by accident that was supposed to go to my friend. It said “So I heard you had sex last night”. And immediately she read it and realized I sent it to an iphone and realized that it wasn’t my friend. I panicked and said I’m really sorry, that it wasn’t supposed to go to her. She never replied at all. Is there any redeeming myself from this? I feel like I messed it all up before I got a chance.
I don’t think you messed up at all. It was just a random text. It’s not like it was about her or anything. I don’t know why she didn’t respond. If it were me, I wouldn’t give a crap at all. Like… it wouldn’t even be a thing. I guess I’d just wait a bit and then just text her asking her to hang out sometime and don’t even bring up the text thing. Honestly if she’s gonna blow you off because of a text you sent by mistake… she’s not worth your time anyway.
Need advice! I live in a very small town. There's not many lgbt people here. A guy was hitting on me one weekend, and I told him I was gay. He then told me that this was the second time it had happened to him, and that there was a waitress at a local bar that I go to that told him that she was gay too. He then encouraged that I should go talk to her. I went this weekend to hang out, and she was working. I took a bold move, as nervous as I was, and talked to her a little. She was really nice, and
To the 18 and 19 yr old virgins - Don't sweat it, like the amazing Jenna said, it'll happen when it should. Don't let it hang over you or get blown into some huge deal, if you're with someone and you're feeling it, it'll come to you naturally and even if there are things that need "work", you can always improve if you're with someone cool and you're open with each other. Random sex can leave you feeling empty, so don't force it if you're not feeling it. -someone who's been there
and am in a relationship to have sex and stop being inexperienced, then I am waiting for something that isn't going to happen because no ones shown an interest. I feel as though I may as well get it over and done with and do it. any advice?
A guy I know was a virgin ‘til like… 30 or 31. So don’t feel shitty that it hasn’t happened yet. Try not to obsess over it. I feel like going out and sleeping with some random person probably isn’t the answer. When it’s the right time for you, it will happen. I promise. I know sex is like this huge thing looming over your head when you’re younger, but it shouldn’t be. As I said before, it will happen when it’s supposed to and then you’ll be like, damn, why did I waste so much time worrying about it?
To the 19 yo virgin anon- I'm 18, a virgin and haven't even been in a relationship before. I have serious doubts about myself as a sexual and romantic partner because no one has liked me sexually or romantically- I'm this terrified, shy, inexperienced Virgin. My thoughts are either I can just dive into it and fuck someone already, even if it's just a hook up. Or I could wait until I'm with a person I love and trust. It's not an easy decision. I feel like of I wait until I fall in love (cont.)
It’s an easy trap to fall into. You’re harmlessly perusing Facebook, bouncing from profile to profile, when suddenly, curiosity strikes. You scroll over to the site’s search bar and warily, after glancing over both of your shoulders, type in your ex’s name.
I’ve been talking about this for years! It’s so true
Not really, but that doesn’t mean you automatically are going to get ill or something. The thing is, especially if you’re a woman, bacteria from the water can get in your “parts” and cause an infection. I’d advise against it.
hi, okay. i'm 19 and i've never had sex. my problem here is that i feel totally inexperienced, so when i find a girl that wants to be with me (and i do too), i chicken out because i'm afraid of not doing things right or looking stupid or something so i stop talking to them. how do i break this vicious cycle?
Yeah, stop doing that! Everyone has sex for the first time SOMETIME. So everyone has gone through it. If a girl really likes you, she won’t care at all whether or not you’ve had sex before. My last girlfriend didn’t have that much experience with girls and we had amazing sex. So really, don’t worry about it. Just be honest with the girl. It can be fun and she can show you what to do and tell you what she likes. Just go for it! You’ll wonder why you waited so long :)